Here are the guidelines for HOW TO GET OVER REJECTION
I basically already covered this in the last post but let’s say it again here. Just to be sure.
If your guy says no
Smile and say “It’s okay”: You like him, right? Then save him the stress of feeling awkward that you’re crying or you’re heartbroken and he’s the cause. Comport yourself.
Act as if it’s no big deal: Because in all honesty, it really isn’t. There are PLENTY of boys out there that will go gaga over you. Just chill. He’s coming.
Get yourself busy with something, ANYTHING else: You need a distraction from the hurt, sister. So, drown into a book, start knitting, do SOMETHING. But make sure it’s something that takes all of your concentration to get done.
Cry alone. Not in front of the world though: Baby, those tears are sacred as fuck. No one is entitled to just see them. Lock yourself in the bathroom, the closet, in the EMPTY gym. Anywhere there’s no other form of life. Cry your soul and then move on.
Crack a joke: So, your friends know you got rejected. The news has spread. You walk into the cafeteria and all heads turn to you. Bitch, don’t panic. Just smile, walk to the table. Start a discussion or have someone start one. If your friends are giving you sympathetic eyes, tell them to stop. Be firm. Most people think sympathy helps but it only makes you feel worse. So yeah, they’ve got to quit the pity party. Now continue your conversation and make jokes. Let yourself laugh. Let others laugh. It will prove to the entire cafeteria (and to you) that you’re not going to die because some boy missed a great opportunity.
LIVE: Alexa, play her Selena Gomez’s RARE album! Listen to this and move on with your life, girl! Grind!
I love you.
I basically already covered this in the last post but let’s say it again here. Just to be sure.
If your guy says no
Smile and say “It’s okay”: You like him, right? Then save him the stress of feeling awkward that you’re crying or you’re heartbroken and he’s the cause. Comport yourself.
Act as if it’s no big deal: Because in all honesty, it really isn’t. There are PLENTY of boys out there that will go gaga over you. Just chill. He’s coming.
Get yourself busy with something, ANYTHING else: You need a distraction from the hurt, sister. So, drown into a book, start knitting, do SOMETHING. But make sure it’s something that takes all of your concentration to get done.
Cry alone. Not in front of the world though: Baby, those tears are sacred as fuck. No one is entitled to just see them. Lock yourself in the bathroom, the closet, in the EMPTY gym. Anywhere there’s no other form of life. Cry your soul and then move on.
Crack a joke: So, your friends know you got rejected. The news has spread. You walk into the cafeteria and all heads turn to you. Bitch, don’t panic. Just smile, walk to the table. Start a discussion or have someone start one. If your friends are giving you sympathetic eyes, tell them to stop. Be firm. Most people think sympathy helps but it only makes you feel worse. So yeah, they’ve got to quit the pity party. Now continue your conversation and make jokes. Let yourself laugh. Let others laugh. It will prove to the entire cafeteria (and to you) that you’re not going to die because some boy missed a great opportunity.
LIVE: Alexa, play her Selena Gomez’s RARE album! Listen to this and move on with your life, girl! Grind!
I love you.
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